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Stories, encouragement, and gentle wisdom for the healing road.

  • When 25% Effort Is Enough

    Sometimes, people see effort as a simple choice. If you want something badly enough, try harder. Push through. Give 100%. Keep going. But after a brain injury, effort can work differently. 🧠 25% Can Feel Like 100% Imagine looking at the gauge and seeing 25% effort. To someone watching from the outside, it may not…

  • You Don’t Have to Heal Alone

    Brain injury can be incredibly isolating. Sometimes, the hardest part isn’t only what happened to your brain. It’s what happens to your relationships afterward. People may not understand why you communicate differently. They may not understand why you need more time. They may not understand why you cancel plans. They may not understand why you…

  • The Gratitude Gauge

    Gratitude can look very different after a brain injury. Some days, you may wake up feeling grateful. Other days, you may wake up exhausted, frustrated, or overwhelmed. You may look at your life and wonder: “What is there to be grateful for?” And that’s okay. Gratitude does not mean pretending that everything is good. 💗…

  • What Is Mine to Carry?

    After a brain injury, it can be easy to feel responsible for everything. Your recovery. Your symptoms. Other people’s feelings. Other people’s reactions. Things that happened to you. Things you wish you had done differently. And sometimes, you may even feel responsible for things that were never yours to carry in the first place. The…

  • Start With 25%

    For many people, the day begins with a reasonably full tank. You wake up. You get out of bed. You brush your teeth. You get dressed. You make breakfast. You start your day. Of course, that can change when you’re sick, haven’t slept well, or are dealing with pain or stress. But for many people…

  • From Anger to Awesome: The Emotional Gauge

    After a brain injury, your emotional “fuel gauge” can look very different from someone else’s. A person without a brain injury might wake up feeling relatively refreshed and have enough energy to handle the normal demands of the day. They might get up, shower, make breakfast, go to work, answer messages, deal with traffic, and…

  • Reconnect With Your Body

    After a concussion or head injury, recovery can involve more than headaches, brain fog, memory problems, or fatigue. Sometimes, you may notice changes in how your body moves and responds. You might hold your breath when standing up. You might clench your jaw. You might feel like you have to pull yourself forward. You might…

  • The Gifts We Discover After Brain Injury

    Brain injury can change so much. 🧠 Memory can change. 🧠 Thinking can change. 💭 Emotions can feel different. 🔋 Everyday tasks can suddenly take enormous energy. 🤝 Things we once did independently may now require support. And sometimes, abilities we once took for granted are no longer available in the same way. But there…

  • Don’t Waste Your Suffering

    Suffering is something most of us want to escape. When we are hurting, overwhelmed, grieving, angry, afraid, or struggling with something we cannot change, our first instinct may be to ask: “How do I make this stop?” But what if there is another question we can ask? “What can this suffering teach me?” That question…

  • Breaking the Vicious Cycle: How I’m Learning to Heal

    Healing after a brain injury is not always a straight line. Some days, I feel like I am making progress. Other days, something small can happen and suddenly I find myself overwhelmed by emotions, thoughts, memories, or physical symptoms that seem much bigger than the situation in front of me. One of the coaches who…