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Stories, encouragement, and gentle wisdom for the healing road.

  • Two Things Can Be True at the Same Time

    After a brain injury, life can feel full of contradictions. I can feel grateful to be alive AND grieve the life I had before. I can be healing AND still have difficult days. I can love someone AND need stronger boundaries with them. This is called dialectical thinking. It is at the heart of Dialectical…

  • My Simple Three-Part Recovery System

    When I first sustained my traumatic brain injury, I thought recovery meant finding the right doctor or the right treatment. Two years later, I’ve realized something much bigger. Healing isn’t one thing. It’s a combination of taking care of your body, your mind, and your spirit. Whenever I feel stuck, I ask myself three simple…

  • Peri or Post?

    Perimenopause and postmenopause are natural stages of life, but they can bring changes that are sometimes difficult to recognize – especially for women recovering from a brain injury. Symptoms like brain fog, fatigue, sleep disturbances, and mood changes may overlap, making it challenging to know what’s contributing to how you feel. In Part 10 of…

  • Menopause or Something Else?

    When new symptoms appear, it’s natural to look for an explanation. For many women, menopause is often the first thing people think of. But after a brain injury, symptoms like fatigue, memory problems, brain fog, mood changes, and sleep disturbances can have many possible causes. In Part 9 of my journey, I share why it’s…

  • Sleep & Recovery

    When we think about recovery, we often focus on therapy, medication, and exercise. But there’s another piece that’s just as important – sleep. After a brain injury, sleep isn’t a luxury. It’s one of the body’s most powerful tools for healing. Without enough quality sleep, even the best therapies may not be as effective as…

  • Medicine Prices in Spain

    One of the biggest surprises during my recovery wasn’t about my treatment. It was about the price. When I compared medication costs in Spain to what many people pay in the United States, I was shocked by the difference. It reminded me that recovery isn’t only about finding the right treatment – it’s also about…

  • When Doctors Say No

    One of the hardest parts of living with a brain injury isn’t always the injury itself. Sometimes, it’s hearing the word “no.” Whether it’s being told a treatment isn’t available, a medication isn’t appropriate, or that there are no more options to try, those conversations can feel overwhelming and discouraging. In Part 6 of my…

  • Living with a Controlled Prescription

    Taking a medication is often seen as a simple part of treatment. But when that medication is classified as a controlled substance, life can become much more complicated. For many people living with a brain injury or another long-term condition, managing a prescription isn’t just about remembering to take it. It can involve strict regulations,…

  • Why Medications Are Hard to Access

    For many people, the biggest challenge isn’t deciding whether to try a treatment. It’s getting access to it. Whether it’s because of insurance requirements, high costs, medication shortages, or complicated healthcare systems, countless people face obstacles before they can even begin treatment. In Part 4 of my journey, I share my personal experience navigating these…

  • Overcoming Needle Fear

    Starting a new treatment isn’t always about deciding whether it might help. Sometimes, the hardest part is overcoming the fear that comes before it. For me, one of those fears was needles. Like many people, I felt anxious about giving myself an injection. Even though I wanted to explore every opportunity to improve my brain…